Resolution

Hopefully posting the link on Facebook will encourage me to write more.  Once a day, once a week...I think the exercise will do me some good.  Of course, I'm only writing this now so I can have something posted for January.  I'm already one week behind!  But I am resolving to write once a week starting...NOW!

Poems-95

For Tony

There is nothing luscious as the sleep

all black and white surrounds

but for familiar darts of flash

and naked violet sounds

unless the stirring of the larks

sing praises in the sky

then nothing is as precious as

when tiny flutters fly

unless a looming stand of green

does bend in violent strain

then I'll not hope to see no more

of pine in winter rain

but what about my living love

he of transparent eye

the one who pleases while he's pleased

and gathers me to cry

I know I'll never more than want

himself so close to mine

much more than thousand roses red

or perfect rhyming line.

Spent in Silence

This was inspired by my American Literature class at CSUF around 1994.

I wonder why my voice sounds kind of crackly when I ask the guy waiting next to me about the Lit. class I missed last week.  It comes to me after I sit down at a desk in the darkened room.  I realize, a bit proudly, that I have spoken but five words the whole day.  Imagine that.  I think of my vocal chords sitting in the darkness of my throat, white and shiny, unmoving.  The rhythmic air of breath, and water, and potato have passed over them but still they stay, quiet.

A girl takes the seat next to me.  "What movie was it?" she asks.

"I'm not sure.  I was thinking maybe Il Postino."  I run the words through my head even as I speak them, counting them, hoping to break some sort of non existent record.  Fourteen.  Fourteen words in five hours.  

Mr. Y walks in then, a large stack of papers under his arm.  Hemley, I think.  I take to drawing on the Insight to pass the time he takes passing out the stories.  I give Professor Kapoor a hat for his head, Mahatma Ghandi, sunglasses.  They both look better, I think.

All the while Mr. Y is sprawled at the front of the room talking, drawling out his mesmerizing Mississippi accent.  A writing assignment, I think with excitement, then drop into the surface of disappointment when I find it's technical, not creative.

You want to write creative? I admonish myself.  Take his creative writing class.  I scratch in my journal some interesting Mississippi pronunciations.  "Tee-yews-dee" for Tuesday.  "Skyewl" for school.  Still, I do not speak.  I do not participate.

Have I ever spoken in this class?  I think.  Once, maybe twice, a while ago.  The first time I gave the definition of "alliteration".  Maybe only once.  I can't think of the other.

I listen with interest the first story Mr. Y reads, about furniture on a lawn in the dark.  I imagine the girl with wispy dark hair, big eyes.  The boy is younger, skinny and pale.  The man walks with a swagger, a determined swagger, bent with the weight of the bag.  He says his words with a measured air of "I don't care what happens.  Everything from this point on doesn't matter."

After the story I listen with half an ear to the discussion.  I really want to read Hemley but am not so rude as to flip through the pages.  I imagine my vocal chords again, bored at inactivity.  They are used to singing every day, strained and painful, but challenged.

What's not a short story? the discussion continues.  A narrative that is idea or subject driven.  There is no character development, it is not character driven.

My attention is pulled again when Mr. Y announces he is going to read one of his own short stories.  Finally.  The stories in the Norton Anthology are dead to me.  This will be a live story.  Mr. Y is asked if he's nervous.

"Not at all," he says.  "My throat's just dry.  It happens sometimes."

I listen as he reads, hearing for the first time in class a writer's own voice in his own story.  Soon I'm engrossed in the words.

A noise behind me startles me out of concentration.  I glance behind me, and there a man sits half asleep, head on chest, snores issuing from the nose.  Another snore, and I'm needlessly embarrassed as more kids turn their heads.  Their faces brighten at the recognition of the sound, at the sight of the man's head resting against the wall now, mouth half open, eyes closed.  They look from me to him, pleased amusement on their faces, as I were his sister or girlfriend and somehow connected with his sleep.

Mr. Y continues to read, either unaware or knowing and not caring.  I think of the irony of the situation.  Mr. Y would not be embarrassed.  He would make a joke, perhaps, and continue to read.  I think of all the words he's saying, all of the words he's said, all of the ones he will.  Hundreds, maybe even thousands.  I think of fourteen.  Fourteen.  I think of emotions without words.

I think, how many people can get through a school day without saying but fourteen words?  Not many.  Not many at all.  Especially not Mr. Y.

On Being a Mom

When you were born, our bodies melded to yours.  Our minds knew your thoughts, our hands discovered and remembered every fold, every wrinkle, every curve of your newborn belly.  Our lives changed, for the better, became far more difficult and yet indescribably joyful.  When you were born, we became Mom.

Now, in this season of newborn, toddler, preschooler, and big kid, our hearts, minds, and hands are still yours.  We wake in the night to nourish you, we forgo sleep to comfort you, we trek about our city to entertain you.  We anguish over decisions, some big, some seemingly inconsequential, and yet we seem to know that each decision made will have a lasting impression on these children we call our own.  

We work outside the home if we need to, we stay home and work if we want to, we scour friends and relatives for the perfect caretaker to care for the precious lives entrusted to us.  We cry as we leave, we laugh when we return, we cherish every moment we have together.

We nap (sometimes) but only when you nap.  We clean (begrudgingly) so that our homes will be fit for play.  We scrub, we sweep, we dust, we vacuum, we wipe, we chase bugs and spiders and scrape Play-Doh off the rug.  We labor, for love is not only the ease of cuddles and kisses. We work for the soundness of us.

We give our souls to God and hope and pray that you will do the same.  We teach, for the most part by example, and sometimes with words.  We repeat Bible verses and get you to church on time.  We grow in His love and in our love for each other.

And at times, when sickness falls and lays a veil of stress and worry over our usually peaceful homes, we rise to the occasion.  We take you to bed with us, diligently administer every drop of medicine prescribed, and offer fizzy drinks usually reserved for special times.  And sometime, someday, if one of you is called to heaven before us, a little piece of our hearts will break off and fly up to heaven with you, for we will always be your mom, wherever we are.

Now, as time passes and the shadows of "pre-teen" and "adolescence" grow larger in the sunshine of this season, we must remember to stop and watch.  Watch your baby walk, watch her chunky little feet pad on the rug as she chases the ball.  Watch your big girl, as she changes her clothes and washes her hair for the first time.  Watch as they struggle, watch as they play, for these times are made for memories.  It is impossible to keep every phase cemented in the recesses of your mind, every feeling of these moments locked in your heart.  So watch, and pray, and give thanks.

We are strong, we are tired, we love and are loved.  We forget, we remember, we live for others before ourselves.  Our arms grow tired from rocking, our feet grow tired from chasing.

And yet, we continue on.

We are Mom.  

Genesis (2005)

Like a brilliant sea of white

God brought forth the light

He cast the dark and shadows off

fleeing from His sight

and like a potter at the wheel

God brought forth a man

shaped and formed an image He

blessed it with His hand

and like the luster of a pearl

a helper, woman, Eve

beauty gentle, curved and new

her love his heart received

and like a serpent's tongue did he

taste the sweetness of the tree

and watched the fall-humanity

sprawl upon the earth

but like a servant king divine

He lived and loved, a Savior mine

upon the cross, the sacrifice

death and then-rebirth